When the ground beneath you shifts—when the fault lines in your life are exposed—it’s disorienting. Everything you thought was solid feels shaky. But here’s the truth: that instability isn’t the end. It’s the beginning.
In previous posts, I’ve talked about seeing the cracks, choosing to forgive without forgetting, and the messy work of setting boundaries. All of those moments lead here: the rebuilding. The chance to write a new story, to build something solid, true, and enduring. But let’s not sugarcoat it—starting over is daunting. When you’re staring at rubble, it’s hard to know where to begin.
If this is where you are, you may be feeling overwhelmed, but know you’re not alone. Rebuilding isn’t about perfect plans or flawless execution—it’s about showing up, one step at a time, and laying a new foundation.
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